Buying Your First Vibrator: Best beginner vibrators

Buying Your First Vibrator: Best beginner vibrators

Choosing a beginner vibrator

The Top three types of vibrators for first time buyers

This blog post will give you some generel tips to help you narrow down the search for your perfect first time vibrator, as well as some product recommendations for models that we think make great first time vibrators.

First, a brief note about dildos versus vibrators:

Almost 75% of women reach orgasm through ­ clitoral stimulation, rather than penetration, so our advice for almost all beginners is that the best place to get started is with a vibrator, as opposed to a dildo. While some dildos vibrate, they’re essentially designed to be inserted to simulate penetrative sex, whereas vibrators are generally designed to stimulate an erogenous zone with the sole purpose of your orgasm! If you’re looking for earth shattering climaxes, vibrators are your friend.

BulletRocks Off Bullet Vibrator - RO-90mm 10 speed bullet in Rose Gold Vibrators – the perfect beginner all rounder!

Bullet vibrators are small, discreet vibrators, but don’t let the size fool you.

Many are powerful. They are generally fairly affordable because of their size and it is more common today to find bullet vibrators that are multifunctional and multi-speed, so you don’t have to sacrifice the fun despite their size. Many will retail at the lower end of the cost spectrum, making them great for first-time buyers.

They come in many various designs, range in speeds from single to multiple speeds and vibrating patterns. Adultsexstore is a huge fan of the Rocks Off Vibrator brand, for powerful bullet vibrators that are fashionable and high quality. This is a british designed brand and they’ve sold several million of their RO-80mm bullets worldwide.  You can get a bullet vibrator for $10, but splash out an extra tenner and get a much better experience with this brand of sleek, discreet premium bullet vibrators.

Clitoral VibratorsJimmyjane Live Sexy Ascend 2

Just to confuse things, we would consider bullet vibrators to be a type of Clitoral vibrator. But clitoral vibrators also include the newer ‘lay on‘ and ‘Rabbit Ears‘ styles.  A lay-on massager style device is a flat(ish) device that often has interesting angles and is designed to massage your vulva generally, but allowing for more pinpointed stimulation when required.  The assymetric design of the we-vibe Wish is a good example of this.  This style of toy can often be used as a general massage device too, so good fun for couples play!

The Rabbit ears option is designed very much for clitoral stimulation.  Look out for a good quality model with a motor in each ‘ear’. Separate motors means that whether you choose to use one, or both, ears for stimulation, you will get sufficient intensity for pleasure.

Magic Wands & MassagersBodywand USB Pink Massager

No Magic wand & massager review would be complete without talking about the amazing The Hitachi Magic Wand – by far the best selling and most powerful vibrator ever made. The Hitachi is much to powerful for beginners, there are however small, less powerful body massagers that will do the job perfectly. Adultsexstore recommends the Rechargeable Bodywand Massager.

More advanced vibrator options

There are lots of other different types of vibrators on the market, but they’re not necessarily the best option for a beginner looking for light experimentation and a pocket friendly first time purchase.

The 3 main categories of vibrators that we haven’t touched on yet.

The First is the Rabbit Vibrator (made famous from Sex and the City). Rabbits have a vibrator that penetrates the vagina, and a vibrating clitoral stimulator all in one. They are a little advanced for beginner users as they need to be manoeuvred to feel comfortable inside, as well as hitting your clitoris at the same time.  If you’re interested in an internal vibrator, a good quality wand is a great start, without all the ‘frills’ that come with a rabbit vibrator.

The 2nd category is the G spot vibe. These have a unique curved shape that are designed to stimulate the G-Spot. Not many women enjoy G-spot stimulation alone, and it can be hard to locate and pleasure your g-spot with a vibrator.  Of course, g-spot vibrators thanks to their curved shape can also make excellent clitoral or external vibrators for massaging the vulva, so while we don’t think g-spot vibration is the ideal place to start experimenting with sex toys for most women, there is no reason why a simple g-spot vibrator can’t make an excellent first purchase..

The third category is Cock rings. Cockrings, or love rings that vibrate, are stretchy rings designed to be worn on the base of the penis by a man to strengthen and prolong his erection, In recent years manufacturers have been adding additional stimulation to these sex aides in the form of small integrated or removeable vibrators and stimulating surfaces that are designed to assist with better clitoral stimulation for her, while she enjoys his longer, harder erection. We think cockrings are a great sex toy for couples, but as a beginner vibrator option, not so much. If you would like to explore a vibrator for the first time with your partner, invest in a top end option like the Pivot by We-Vibe for a better all round experience. Hey, it’s cheaper than a fancy date night and lasts many times longer! 

Summary

When buying your first vibrator online, balancing cost and power is important.  There is little point buying a cheap vibrator only to find that it has no power and lets you down on your very first go.  Trust us, the MOST frustrating vibrator experience is one that arouses you, but doesn’t bring you to climax, and cheaper options with small batteries can do just this.  That doesn’t mean you need to spend loads of money, consider these tips for getting the best outcome:

  • Look for a hard casing vibrator – harder cases carry vibration better, so even in a smaller, cheaper model, vibration will be felt better through a hard case than for example a jelly exterior
  • If possible, pay for a rechargeable model – lithium ion batteries (of the type in rechargeable sex toys) carry more power than batteries.  However recharging technology can be more expensive so there is a trade off
  • Keep it simple – if you don’t know whether you’ll enjoy a vibrator or not, pick a simple model, not something that is hard to handle. We recommend an 8 to 10 cm bullet, or a small wand vibrator as your first choices.  These are the most versatile and simple options.  Stay away from bunny ears, lay ons and other alternative designs if you’re not sure whether vibrating toys are for you.  These can be more challenging to achieve the right stimulation with.

Happy buying and do contact us at support@adultsexstore.com.au if you’d like to ask any questions!

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